The National Association for the Education of Young Children (NAEYC) has compiled online resources about coping with violence and tips for talking to young children. These resources are available here:
The National Association of School Psychologists – Resources to cope with violence
Resources on talking to children about violence, tips for parents, teachers, and school administrators, dealing with a death in a school and more. The Association has listed some of these key resources on their home page for quick access.
The National Child Traumatic Stress Network – Tips for talking to children about the shooting
Resources on talking to children about the recent shooting, information about the shooting’s psychological impact, tips for parents on media coverage – includes tips specific for preschool-aged children.
The National Education Association – School crisis guide
The National Education Association (NEA) and the National Education Association Health Information Network (NEA HIN) developed this easy-to-use crisis guide with essential, to-the-point advice for schools and districts.
American Academy of Pediatrics – Talking with children
Resources to help parents talk to children about violence and disasters.
Child Care Aware – Helping families and children cope
In the wake of any kind of emergency or disaster – large or small – children and adults may feel anxious about their own safety and security. Child Care Aware offers resources for Parents, Caregivers, School Professionals and more.
American Psychological Association – Helping children manage distress
As a parent, you may be struggling with how to talk with your children about a shooting rampage. It is important to remember that children look to their parents to make them feel safe.
National Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry – Coping with tragic events
In hopes of helping families cope with such tragic events AACAP created a collection of resources including tips for talking to children about Connecticut school shooting.
Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration – Coping with violence and traumatic events
This web page includes information about the Disaster Distress Hotline, the nation’s first hotline dedicated to providing disaster crisis counseling. It also includes articles for students, parents, teachers, and other caregivers, and for responders and health professionals.
Sesame Workshop – A resource for parents and caregivers
“Here for Each Other: Helping Families After and Emergency” is a resource that includes tips, ideas, and activities to help adults and children cope with disasters.
Helping Children Deal with Tragic Events in the News – Timeless wisdom from Fred Rogers for parents, teachers, and caregivers
In times of community or world-wide crisis, it’s easy to assume that young children don’t know what’s going on. But one thing’s for sure, children are very sensitive to how their parents feel. They’re keenly aware of the expressions on their parents’ faces and the tone of their voices.
Subtitled “A Guide for Parents and Educators,” this printable PDF contains concise tips for talking to children after traumatic events as well as resource links when more active intervention may be required.
Helping Children Cope with Tragedy-related Anxiety
This web page, from Mental Health America (formerly known as the National Mental Health Association), offers tips for parents in helping preschool-age children, as well as grade school-age children and adolescents, with tragedy-related anxiety.
After the Crisis: Using Storybooks to Help Children Cope
Authors Cathy Grace and Elizabeth Shores offer literature-based activities to help children who have been through a trauma. With activities and exercises that can be used in conjunction with 50 children’s books, the discussion starters and writing and art activities in After the Crisis can be used by teachers to promote children’s ability to cope and heal.
Media Coverage of Traumatic Events
This web page discusses research findings that link watching media coverage of traumatic events with stress. The article gives viewing recommendations and other advice for parents of young children.
It’s a good thing you were born at night. This world sure seems dark. I have a good eye for silver linings. But they seem dimmer lately.
These killings, Lord. These children, Lord. Innocence violated. Raw evil demonstrated.
The whole world seems on edge. Trigger-happy. Ticked off. We hear threats of chemical weapons and nuclear bombs. Are we one button-push away from annihilation?
Your world seems a bit darker this Christmas. But you were born in the dark, right? You came at night. The shepherds were nightshift workers. The Wise Men followed a star. Your first cries were heard in the shadows. To see your face, Mary and Joseph needed a candle flame. It was dark. Dark with Herod’s jealousy. Dark with Roman oppression. Dark with poverty. Dark with violence.
Herod went on a rampage, killing babies. Joseph took you and your mom into Egypt. You were an immigrant before you were a Nazarene.
Oh, Lord Jesus, you entered the dark world of your day. Won’t you enter ours? We are weary of bloodshed. We, like the wise men, are looking for a star. We, like the shepherds, are kneeling at a manger.
This Christmas, we ask you, heal us, help us, be born anew in us.
Dr. Wilsons Words of Wisdom: I read an article the other day that said Arnie Duncan (Secretary of Education), hoped to have all k12 schools make the move to eTextbooks in the next few years. His reasons for this push included benefits such as a monetary savings and more up to date textbooks, but perhaps more critical is a shift to a more immersive environment. In a digital book students can read, highlight, take interactive quizzes, and even watch a video all from a single device as part of a single reading assignment. I personally think there is power in this type learning.
Many complain that students already spend too much time in front of a screen, to have them do all their reading on a screen would increase this. Is this really where we want to go?
The idea of using digital content does show promise. As the article suggests, students across the world are beginning to use these devices and showing increased benefits. Unfortunately, many teachers I encounter are not ready for this shift. The US can’t just roll out k12 textbooks and expect teachers and students to know what to do with them.
I have an eVersion of my college textbook available for graduate students to use for the last few semesters. Some students already owned digital devices and found it to be a less expensive textbook option. They thought that since they read for pleasure on these devices, they should be able to read for class using the device. The problem is that many don’t know how to use the eBook device)for learning. Several have even confessed to purchasing a second copy of the book as a hard copy because they had a hard time taking notes and recalling what was highlighted in a meaningful way. Interestingly enough, even those who did manage to read using the eTextbook, many confessed it is still was not their preference.
Change takes time. Do you remember how hard it was to change from typing on a typewriter to typing on a computer with a word processor. It was a shift in process. I remember helping my father make the transition (an good typist but clueless about keystrokes on a computer). He wasn’t a cussing man but if he was, our time together would have needed a PG-13 rating. It was frustrating!
Of course now, he has made the shift, he is very prolific and comfortable on the computer. He just needed time to make the adjustment. Thinking about this shift got me thinking. If it is true that we will move to eTextbooks over the next few years (and I think it is), then teachers should right now begin to force themselves to purchase digital content to read and use professionally. We need time to practice with the new tools, and become proficient with them ourselves before we put them in our student’s hands. It will be up to us to teach our students how to use these new tools, and if we are not comfortable with it ourselves, then I doubt that we will encourage the use of these tools.
So do you have a digital reading device? Have you started highlighting and taking notes on this device? I think we better get started. What do you think?